Monday, June 2, 2014

On Returning

I recall a letter my godmother wrote to me the first time I travelled to Ghana for a semester abroad in 2012. In the letter, she told me to do everything I wanted to on this trip as return trips are a different thing altogether. I don't think I understood that at the time, but it's becoming clearer on this, my third season of living in Cape Coast, Ghana.

I arrived in Accra a little over two weeks ago along with my brother, Ben, for whom this experience was entirely new. We were met at the airport by friends and my fiance who helped us haul our luggage to a vehicle and piled into the car with us to escort us back to Cape Coast and I overwhelmingly felt like I was on my way home. This time I didn't feel so much like a foreigner coming for a holiday, but rather a friend returning for an extended visit. I know what to expect most of the time. The creative interpretation of traffic laws does not set my nerves on edge anymore. I like to think I've become a master in the art of waiting, a requisite for life in Ghana. As I walk the streets, I am met by people who know my name and who say "welcome back." I'm being called upon later today to show some students from the U.S. around the city by someone who has lived here her whole life and thinks that I'm qualified for the job.


While many things have grown unremarkable to me, I want to strive not to forget what it was like to experience them for the first time. The first time I travelled here, it was about the place. The second time it was equally about the place and the people. This time, my motivation for coming was almost entirely based upon people. (Certainly one person in particular.) For two years all of my travel has been focused on this one city in Ghana and by the end of this summer I will have spent ten months here collectively. I don't want to travel to a place just to leave it behind but I want to have people across oceans I can look forward to returning to. When I leave in August, I may be leaving a place behind but I will look forward to returning to the people.   

No comments:

Post a Comment